I agree with all your posts, and I am really happy there is so much support.

I have an unusual situation, where I was single for the first 6 years I was on the force, and like any male, I was interested in a social life.

Being the size of my town, I would get grief from exboyfriends, current boyfriends, friends, enemies, and all the sorts of any woman I dated. It all came to a volcano when I had to arrest a gal I dated for about a year. I still hear about that, and I dated her 4 years ago.

So now, I wear kilts, and it gives them something to talk about rather than my persoanl or social life.