I missed replying before the wedding, so obviously this isn't meant as advice for it, but maybe for a future wedding, or for other people.
Whenever you’re wearing a kilt, imagine what would be appropriate if you weren’t wearing a kilt and try to use the same guidelines. Get the right level of dress for the event.
A glengarry is really meant for the military or pipe band members. It's ok to have one and to wear it, but I would not wear it to a social event unless I was in uniform. I prefer the look of them over the balmoral, too, but the balmoral is more the civilian day wear. Neither is really right for evening wear. If you weren’t wearing a kilt, would you wear a hat? If not, then don’t wear the hat with the kilt.
I would find out how other people are dressing if possible before going to the event, and especially how the groom and groomsmen are dressing. You really don't want to dress better than the groom. That's just bad form. A Prince Charlie jacket is extremely formal. Most people will never attend the sort of event that requires a tux with tails, which is the equivalent. Even an argyle jacket is equivalent to wearing a tuxedo, but you can get away with it where most men are wearing suits. For just about every wedding that I've attended or played at, the best choice for guests who wanted to wear a kilt would have been a day jacket or argyle.
Nit picking now. Try to keep everything at the same level of formality. If you’re wearing a Prince Charlie jacket, then you want very formal shoes. With a kilt that means gillie brogues or buckle shoes. Some people think white hose are formal wear. Some people think colored hose. Argyle hose definitely are. Off white never are. A semi-formal sporran is good for a lot of situations, but not really with a Prince Charlie.
Obviously, this as all just my opinion, and I prefer to lean toward being understated rather than showy.
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