Just go on over to Kiltmen.com to the Braveheart's Kilt Forum ... no moderator, no holds barred, intense discussion on all the issues you mentioned and more.

I've only seen one thread deleted and it had gotten so personal and ugly that even I had to agree it was time to kill it. Otherwise, as long as there can be some kind of dotted line to connect your topic with kilts or other mens' skirted garments, there is nothing sacred there.

Good luck,

Chris Webb