problems with the top half

[bangkok kilt]

Don't just tuck, once the kilt is on, try pulling about 2 inches of the t-shirt out evenly all the way around. The blousier (SP) look might work with a kilt with that high of a rise.

Adam

I'm with Arrogcow on this one. I usually blouse the shirt if I feel the overall look is unbalanced between shirt and kilt. The other thing is that you just have to get used to the look of the kilt being so high. The belt does indeed help this as well.

[KiltedCodeWarrior]

Moose, that pic does not look bad at all. Seems fairly balanced. And the sweater goes fine. I have to agree that you might just be feeling some first time jitters.