I did not wear my kilt today

[GMan]

A very prudent choice.

WELCOME

[David Dalglish]

Welcome from Carlisle--you made the right choise

[Graham]

I agree with you about SCD being a healthy thing to do. My wife and I have been involved for 2 years, there are only two or three men involved with our local group and I'm the only one who wears a kilt all the time.
When we get together for gatherings most men wear kilts.

Blu is right, apologise to no one!

I wore shorts the other day myself for the first time in months, I was working on a plank right in front of the entrance to the busiest take away shop in town.
I didn't want to frighten the horses.

[Pour1Malt]

walcome tae the rabble frae the rabble!

guid oan ya fur finin us!

ai dinnae ken aboot this dancin oan top o' a kilted wireless though?????

odd fetish tae bae sure....

slainte mhath!

[Martin S]

It's good to know someone will be doing their bit to advertize the best pastime in the world -- Scottish Country dancing -- so we can forgive your going bifurcated once in a while (not that it's any of our business, anyway!).

I too sometimes wonder whether the idea that you have to wear a kilt to dance might put some men off trying, but since all the men that have taken up the activity here in France quit soon beg borrow or buy a kilt, I now think perhaps the opposite is true ; SCD is a good excuse to wear a kilt -- for those that would not dare to otherwise.

If you want to forget your worries, meet nice people and get some healthy exercise, take up Scottish Country dancing. It's a worldwide activity, believe it or not. At events I have organized here, we have had dancers from every continent, Sweden in the north, Japan in the east, Canada in the west, and both S Africa & N Zealand in the southern hemisphere. How's that for international? -- and all the men in kilts, of course.

Martin,
in Grenoble, France

[James]

You are quite right-there are times when this or that form of dress is unsuitable/innapropriate for all sorts of reasons: to make such a decision shows maturity.

James

[cessna152towser]

Welcome to the forum Andrewson. As you said a kilt is not compulsory for Scottish Country dancing though it is far more comfortable than trousers, so you were right in that you wouldn't want new recruits to be dissuaded by believing they needed a kilt right away. Better that they should start the dancing habit then choose to become kilted later. Scottish Country Dancing is very healthy exercise - Ann and I used to go twice a week until we had to give it up seven years ago when Ann had a stroke, but I really do miss the exercise.

[NewKilt]

Welcome from mid-Missouri. I think you made a very logical decision. BTW, an excellent post.

Darrell

[MacWage]

Welcome!

Two left feet,

[Andrewson]

Many thanks for the warm welcome from all parts of the world. And for the supportive comments. That was really great!

I too sometimes wonder whether the idea that you have to wear a kilt to dance might put some men off trying, but since all the men that have taken up the activity here in France quit soon beg borrow or buy a kilt, I now think perhaps the opposite is true ; SCD is a good excuse to wear a kilt -- for those that would not dare to otherwise.

I go along with some of this but the fact is that when I first tried Scottish Country Dancing, way back in the late fifties, early sixties, I was quite determined that I was not going to wear a kilt.

I had just left my native Scotland to live in England and I was the kind of Scot -and there are many of these – that thought the whole kilts, tartan, hielan' teuchter bit was strictly for the shortbread tin lid. Scotland was a forward looking modern nation that didn't need all that kitsch. Though the dancing turned out to be fun, I never had any desire to kilt-up to do it and thought the Englishmen who did were faintly ridiculous. I should also add that I had resisted strong pressure from my mother for me to wear a kilt as a boy. Sure there were boys in my class at school who wore the kilt every day but I wasn't one of those. To be honest I did not have the chutzpah to wear a kilt in the tough mining village in which I grew up.

After a break of twenty years while our family grew up my wife and I again took up Scottish Country Dancing. Now things were very different. I'd like to say I was older and wiser, but I think I was just a bit less sensitive to what others might think. This time it was an invitation to be part of a public dance demonstration that spurred me on to buy my first kilt. This coincided with my joining the Forsyth Clan, my mother's family clan, and coming more to terms with Scottish traditions and history which gave me a more balanced view of habits and customs. Or maybe it was just the usual ex-pat nationalism coming to the fore?

Anyhow I soon discovered the comfort and joy of dancing in a kilt and for the last twenty years have found more and more occasions on which to wear one.

So I do go along with Martin that once you've crossed the barrier and given it a try, then SCD is a very good excuse to wear a kilt for those who would not dare otherwise. In a sense it is like wearing your kilt to Highland Games etc. but with the bonus that the opportunities are far more frequent. But, as I hope I've illustrated from my own history, there is a real barrier there to be overcome. And that is why when recruiting new dancers I make sure the men know that they definitely don't have to wear a kilt.

And I am not apologising for that