Just a couple of random thoughts as I was browsing your thread...

Rex & Rocky have both made excellent points. In addition, I can only suggest that there must be a gene for kilts... and some people have it & some people don't.

Like you, I met with resistance in the initial stages. I've managed to overcome that resistance for the most part through persistance, intelligent discussion, some compromise, and more persistance. Over time she has come to realize that it's harmless and sometimes fun.

I'm not even close to being a full time kilt wearer myself but I might suggest that increasing the frequency of kilt wearing slowly may be less of a shock to her system.

blu