My first kilt.

[Norbydog]

I got rave reviews for this look (mainly from people on this forum). I know this isn't exactly as formal as you will be, but this pic shows kilt height, sock fold, sporran height, and belt placement. Also, I run the sporran chain or strap through the belt loops on the kilt, and the belt over the belt loops.

Just keep in mind, if there are other kilted people there, they will help you with any last minute details. If not, they won't notice little imperfects in how you are dressed. The kilt itself will steal the show.

In regards to flashes....think of them as a little extra bling. Not a necessity, but really make you look sharp, and bring the whole ensemble together.