Quote Originally Posted by andrew mcalpin
... I would be grateful for some advice and comebacks...
Hello Andrew,

Welcome to Xmarksthescot.

As one who also shares some of that McAlpine bloodline, I'd like to make a comment or two.

Firstly, I remember how tough my teenage years were and how raging hormones can affect young minds as they try to find their identity within a group. You certainly have my respect for stepping away from the rest of the drones and showing pride in your heritage. I know how well how much fortitude it takes to start wearing a kilt in public.

What you are experiencing is social conditioning at its finest. Conform, fit in, play the game, follow the group, stick with the program, etc. or else face the scorn of society. I would guess that, at some time or other, every member of this forum has faced some form of negativity

As for the caustic remarks... I've been called a few things over the last few years virtually all of which were not worth getting worked up over. You soon come to realize that the people doing the name calling do so through ignorance, and fear. They think that by puting down someone else, they elevate their own self esteem.

I have to say that the "bloody nose" incident was unfortunate and I understand how the negative remarks by imature students can be frustrating and discouraging. ButI assure you that your determination and resolve on your part will eventually defeat the ignorant. Don't lose heart... you are a McAlpine

Cuimnich bas Ailpein

blu