Ham, you always look so "at home" in the kilt. I think you have mentioned in other threads that it comes with long use and becoming very "natural." I am not a full time kiltie (probably four or five days a week) but I have noticed how in time there is no self-consciousness and it probably shows in bearing. I have wondered from time to time how the chap who only wears the kilt once or once a year becomes truly "at home."