I am sorry for your loss. I lost my father 10 years ago just a few days past his 90th. My mother passed on 4 years ago, also a few days past her 90th. Being with her in those last few days was something I am grateful to been able to do. With my father I was not with him for all of his last days due to distance and financial constraints. While they are gone in the physical sense, as long as we remember them they will be with us. Living well is the best legacy we can give them.