My wife knew I beat to a different drummer before we got married. When I met, I was always in cowboy boots, a hat and western shirts. I still have seven pairs of boots that I never wear now. When we got married I told her that I wanted to wear a red tuxedo jacket (see aviator), and she just kind of smiled and said I wouldn't expect anything else. When Hosehead got me into kilts, it was just another item, I don't think she expected it to become an everyday thing but she has been really supportive.