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[cavscout]

I started typing a very long and rambling response to detail the issues I've had with my wife, but let me just sum it up that my wife would prefer I not wear a kilt. She doesn't like it at all. I made every effort to respect her feelings without betraying myself but it was clear that her position was she didn't want the kilt (period).

Bottom line, she does need a bit of time to get used to it so there's no need to drop the hammer on her right from the start. If she is willing to let it grow on her for a bit that is positive. If she is firm on her opinion that she doesn't like it and will never like it (or even tolerate it), then you have to decide if it is important enough to you to deal with the arguments that will come from it.

You're not the first to cross this bridge. I'm still in the middle of it and they keep builing on