Welcome to the boards, this is a fun place. Full of kilt addiction enablers. OOOPS, did I say that... I mean, a board full of frindly, knowledgable people who support the wearing of the kilt.
Depending on the shirt, and the type of rise on the kilt, I sometimes leave it untucked. Especially t-shirts... they're usually short enough to not matter... a jacobite style shirt, or anything remotely fancy or a shirt that's a little longer than my usual t-shirts gets tucked in, it really does look better. With a Utilikilt, chances are it's worn much lower than a more traditionally style piece, so tucking in is a good idea.
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