Quote Originally Posted by Canadian_Kilt View Post
However I do think it is still polite to check with the couple before wearing a kilt to their wedding. Some may have concern that you will draw attention away from them. While you may not agree, this is the one day in their lives where they get to be right, and if they don't want you to wear it, you don't, or you don't go.
I did not wear a kilt to a wedding yesterday - I was there as the photographer, not as a participant per se. I didn't even ask the couple if I could wear a kilt.

I therefore wore my "nice" black pants, dark green shirt, and tried to make myself as unobtrusive as possible.

However... I'm pretty sure that even in a kilt, I couldn't possibly have drawn any attention away from them.