Hey Yeti,

Brother, I know what you are going through. I'll echo what others have already said, and say that it is probably for the best. I went through a hideously painful break up a few years ago that left me decided never to date again, much less let myself fall for anyone. Then I met Helena. We started dating, swearing to ourselves and each other that it was nothing serious. Within six months we were married, and we've been together to this day. (and many beyond...) It's hard to hear when you're down, I know, but if you keep on keepin' on, you'll make it through man.