My young brother, I respectfully submit that the mistake may have been yours. Why would you presume that some female in a "biker bar" to have better upbringing?

I have had otherwise hard working, intelligent, respectable young ladies do worse when I was in chef's clothes. The girls I am referring to count my wife as a friend! Alcohol lowers inhibitions. They thought it was cute at the time. My son still thinks they are very disturbed and in need of therapy.

I rode year round 24/7 for many years, the s' you find playing biker on the weekends in nice weather are another breed.

Granted she should have had more class. The not-quite-alpha-male could have done a better job of acting like a man, but assuming that a woman out playing 'property of' either has upbringing or takes note of same could reasonably be called a mistake.

Still I think it was a shame that this seemed okay to the gathered. Reversing those roles could result in big trouble, legal or extra-legal.

You made no mistake in showing restraint and class where a lesser man would have let emotion carry the day. For that I salute you. Well Done!