Does L pay your wages?. Does L feed you?. If not , her opinion is hers. She has a right to it, but it should not control your life in any way. My sister tried to inflict her opinion on me and all it got her was a cold shoulder. I have not spoken to her in 10 years. When she decides that she was wrong in inflicting her opinion upon me, I will welcome her back with open arms. Opinios are like certain parts of one's anatomy. And everyone's stinks except mine. that is what i have to say about that. Good Luck. Time heals all wounds. Frank