You're scaring me!!

ACT FAST

Do not allow your son to go there alone, especially with intent to violence.
Nor you later.

The tow operators expect confrontation, have experienced and and ready for it (and no doubt armed, being stateside). Here, in Canada, (without legal guns) tow operators, who are fierce competitors, have a panic code and they all gather.

This is considered a legitimate business practice.

My recommendations: if your daughter asks, the nice Beach Police might accompany you.
Have son find the Jeep repair place and have jeep towed there. ASAP, since most repair places don't charge for storage.
Get all receipts and let your insurance company argue with the tow operator. Or see if the insurance people will pay first and fax you with a paid in full statement specifying you will pay nothing when you pick up the jeep by a specific date/time.


Later on, you might want to discuss with your daughter, or Jeep Corp, how a vehicle designed for off-road, going less than the speed limit on a regular, since it is patrolled, road would sustain that much damage. If, in fact, it was below the speed limit.
But that's for much later.

First, get the jeep safely out of the hands of the tow operators.