I would disagree strongly with that, HIghland. People here have simply been discussing family traits. It's just like when I met a cousin for the first time from a branch of the family which had lost touch. I was wearing sandals, and she looked at me in surprise and said, "You have Daddy's feet!

Additionally, I am pretty sure that my father's remaining family in Europe was wiped out by the Nazis, so I would be reacting just as strongly if I felt the same as you.