jordanjm,

Between what you are doing and the suggestions already given it seems to me that you should not have any issues regarding overxposure.

However, this does not mean that I would advise you to go against the wishes of you in-laws.

As a man with 3 mother-in-laws (long story, late wife's mother, late wife's father's wife and wife's mother) I am all in favor of good relations.

My first suggestion would be to go easy, then allow your in-laws to realize that your are every bit as modest in the kilt as you are in trousers. Nothing that shouldn't show, shows.

Cheers,

Marshal Moroni