georgeblack7 made a good point. I don't know much about you buddy, but if your kilt is hitting at the right spot at your knee & you are wearing your sporran, you should be ok. For us US American men that are not used to kilts it does take a bit of getting used to. But trust me, after awhile it becomes old hat.

One thing you will need to perfect, if you haven't already, is 'sitting like a lady'. We call this 'sweeping the pleats'. I think Hamish has a video here on the forum about that.