Quote Originally Posted by Squeaky McMurdo View Post


You know...I don't even know if we're in the wedding party...

FYI: My mom's fiance LOVED it when me, my hubby, and our daughter showed up in Scottish garb after the Yellowstone Highland Games. He would probably be fine with a tasteful kilt outfit on my hubby.
S M,

Wait to see if you are asked to be in the wedding party. If she does then directly tell her how hurt you were that she decided that your husband couldn't wear a kilt to your wedding and that you respectful (and politely) ask her to make amends and allow him to wear one in hers.

Based on what she did to you both on your own wedding I think it would be completely fine to politely decline to be part of her wedding party but wish to attend the wedding.

Cheers

Jamie