Pay back time?

[Squeaky McMurdo]

I say wear a kilt if you feel like it and pray, pray, pray that she doesn't decide to move to New Zealand.

Don't even joke about that

[Ian.MacAllan]

I would personally take the high road. . . . it seems to me like the woman didn't realize she did anything wrong. . . .

That's not just the high road, Dave, that's extraterrestrial. Her timing---too late for anyone to undo her meddling---denies her innocence. Let us keep Squeaky and her husband (and her sister and her betrothed) in our prayers.

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[English Bloke]

I don't advocate you follow my advice but were I in your shoes Squeaky, I would not attend the wedding. In fact, there is not a hammer big enough to drive the wedge that I would have already put in place.

I would also treat your move to New Zealand as an opportunity to permanently close the door. I wouldn't even give the woman my new address. No letters, no phonecalls, no emails, no christamas cards, nothing.

As you may notice I am not a very forgiving person so please don't do what I would do.

[davedove]

That's not just the high road, Dave, that's extraterrestrial. Her timing---too late for anyone to undo her meddling---denies her innocence. Let us keep Squeaky and her husband (and her sister and her betrothed) in our prayers.

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Possibly, and only Squeaky is close enough to really know, but I have known people like that in my life who have absolutely NO clue that what they're doing is wrong. And the difficult part is that they mean well and think they are helping.