I love that picture. I called my 16-year-old over to see your little guy in his kilted glory, and he looked and instantly said, "What a great family!" I asked him what he meant. "They just look like nice people. They love each other -- you can tell -- and they all look really comfortable with who they are."

Even though he sometimes makes me want to drink, my son is often an intelligent and amazing perceptive young man. I'm glad you made a stand. You guys look terrific.