Let me say something. It is hard to process and get into your mind, but it would be extremely good if we all could do this. I read this in a book couple of weeks ago and even I can't say that I've embraced this idea fully. At least I try.

You see, anything what happens is neither good nor bad. It’s good or bad while we give this connotation to it. Given this as a starting point you should always think that what happened is the best thing that could happen to you (or other) in given time and situation. My wife is saying for many years that “you never know what something is good for” and this idea is just more extreme version of her thoughts.

Anyhow, I hope you, your mother and all your family will find “peace” and take the most of the time left in your lives.


Sorry for my not perfect knowledge of English, but I hope you got the idea!