Let's see, just off the top of my head I have seen men at Highland Games, Burns Suppers and other functions -- not competitive dancers, but just regular attendees -- wearing kilts in the following dress tartans:
-Dress Blue Stewart, weathered
-Dress MacDonald, weathered
-Dress Campbell, modern
-Dress MacDonald, modern
-Dress MacPherson

None of them looked effemenant in the slightest.