groom to be needing advice

[Jock Scot]

I understand your aversion to ghillies. I think buckle brogues would look better than boots for a wedding.

Ok I admit I could not conceive of wearing boots to a wedding, but that is just me. The shoes in the picture are far, far too formal for most weddings (practically all). When all said and done it is your decision, but it is as well you know these things so that you can take an informed view.

[MacLowlife]

Welcome, TMJ,

Whether or not your outfit is "traditional" is a question of perspective. As a committed fogey, I see your outfit as pretty darned contemporary, but I am betting it mirrors your lifestyle and, as such, is probably a great idea.

Do your friends wear similar boots regularly? ( Doc Martens?, regular GI combat boots?)
Do you and your friends frequently wear dark shirts when dressing for occasions?

Can you pick a jacket/shirt/tie combination that gives you some contrast? Or was it your preference to look like a monochromatic monolith? Would you consider some textural contrast, as embodied by a velvet jacket?

There must be at least ten styles of lace up low shoes, technically all called oxfords, and maybe another five or more that slip on. That is before you get into color, texture, sole thickness, etc., much less sandals. If you like the boots, that is fine, but you needn't limit yourself to a seesaw choice of either boots or ghillie brogues. I would recommend that you choose something comfortable, something a little bit special, and something that you can afford to actually buy - there is nothing worse than rented shoes. And if you plan to dance, bear that in mind while you choose.

I hope you can find a buttonhole flower to wear that suits your bride and looks good with your outfit- and maybe some way to incorporate that tartan into the rest of the wedding party's outfits.

Oh, and, despite opinions concerning how overly formal it may be, I would say a fly plaid would be nice- a man is never in a situation more significant, more important, or more formal than his wedding.

rock on.

[St. Amish]

The shoes in the picture are far, far too formal for most weddings (practically all).

That was just a stock photo I found on the net. I put it up because it sounded like he maybe just didn't like those ridiculous laces all over his calves.

I typically wear Dr. Martens shoes when I dress up, but I don't dress up often, and when I do, I don't get too dressed up.

[Zardoz]

The outfit described sounds like the one on this site;
http://www.highlandstore.com/acatalo...it_Outfit.html

I like the look, but it's a lot of black. "Murdered out" as the kids say
Personally I think I would go with the grey jacket and waistcoat, and some grey hose to balance things out.

[svc40bt]

It seems you already have the answer you need. Your intended has given her blessing. However, since you asked, did you have any specific boots in mind? It could work in an edgy or punk way, if that is what you are going for. Otherwise, as others have said, regular brougues (wing tips) or cap or plain toe oxfords would be perfectly acceptable.

[Raphael]

I am getting married next year and I am thinking about wearing a pair of New Rock Boots with a black leather kilt. I am sure that you will be fine with your choice of footwear.

[jordanjm]

I say it depends on the level of dressing up you want to achieve. Nice dress shoes, which are not the Scottish varieties can be had at reasonable prices. I like the wing tips personally. But if you are going lower key then the boots can work just as well. It is great that you have someone supportive. Remember that is a big blessing.

[Phil]

For a wedding I would stick to a pair of shoes (brogues, wingtips, oxfords whatever). Boots are for casual wear and don't suit the occasion - unless it is a very casual wedding of course. I have an admission to make here (and I hope Jock is not looking) but I wore gillie brogues to my wedding.

[Jock Scot]

For a wedding I would stick to a pair of shoes (brogues, wingtips, oxfords whatever). Boots are for casual wear and don't suit the occasion - unless it is a very casual wedding of course. I have an admission to make here (and I hope Jock is not looking) but I wore gillie brogues to my wedding.

Each to their own Phil.

[Scotland Forever]

As another 'groom to be' I can empathize with the plethora of choices.
I'd say that it's your big day, do what you want!