Thanks a lot for the advice guys! I think I will wear black hose/red flashes. I've worn that combo before and liked it.
I did think cream hose wasn't quite the right choice

Also a thank you for the additional kiltmakers that are reputable here on the NA Continent. I basically have this week
to decide and place the order if I expect to have it all ready for the wedding.

At this point I might simply chose my items as I go, with the Kilt and RD orders being placed this weekend.

I'll keep ya updated