Some incredibly sad news

[bchunter]

I agree with Galician. It has obviously been very difficult for you in this loss, but I imagine his family is also suffering tremendously as well. I suspect that some kind and warm words from you will be a balm for both of you.

[NewGuise]

That is really rough. I'll be thinking about you and all concerned, the family and friends in particular. However useless it might be, it's hard, I know, not to beat one's self up about what one might have said to him, might have done differently, if only...

[Lallans]

People often do these things for reasons that are hidden from everyone, and in Japan they also seem to be a cultural legacy. Don't take it personally and don't beat yourself up for 'not spotting the warning signs' or anything like that- obviously he kept things hidden even from his own family, and anyway this may have been a response to something like a sudden romantic disappointment.

[Atlanta Kiltie]

I am very sorry and can empathize; one of my close friends ended his life suddenly three years ago tomorrow. I have been out of sorts for the last several days. I think the hardest thing for me is why didn't he ask for help. All I can do is be with the emptiness, relish the memories and be thankful that I was able to have his friendship. I will keep you, your student and his family in my thoughts and prayers.

Peace

AK