I think for me there is a point(s) of maturity, for lack of a better word, and peace when the things "I have to do" become the things "I want to do". Many of us are naturally resentful of the things in life we feel that we have to do (make our bed, brush our teeth, go to school) when we are younger. But, for which at some time in our development we do because we understand the value of them and actually want to do them (make our bed, brush our teeth, go to college as an adult). When I was able to shift my perception of the things I have to do, to be the things that I want to do, my life got (gets) much more comfortable.

I am happy for your shift OC! In the short time I have been on this forum I too have been helped immensely.

Well, I'm going to get off this computer and go to work... because I want to :-)

Brooke