Good Morning Joe, I wish I could be of more help to you, but let me relate to to you my own thoughts. I was married after I was off active duty, but my wife also wanted a military style wedding.Since this was an evening affair, I chose to wear my Prince Charlie with mini medals and dirk. I found that wearing a mess white blouse, dress blue blouse, or Class A blouse was too long to wear with my kilt. It just didn't look right. I'm not familiar with USAF regulations, so I understand your confusion. Please remember that I am not making a recommendation, just relating my own personal experience. Good luck to the both of you, a long happy life, and thank you for your service. Welcome home brother!