Great feedback all...
Lots of talk about dress shirts here. I'm, unfortunately, limited to pleated front shirts. Speaking of which...do the masses prefer wider or narrow pleats? I think I remember reading that wider are more traditional with 1/4" pleats being a post WWII trend. Is that true? Is one considered more refined than the other or more or less formal?
Also...what about ties and cummerbunds? Anybody have a favorite brand/maker? Obviously I'm looking for a self-tie bow tie...no more pre-tied. I was thinking about going for grosgrain or faille...but then I realized that the lapels on my mess jacket are satin. Do you think I should keep the tie and cummerbund satin as well? Or is it ok to mix satin lapels with grosgrain tie and cummerbund. Here's my wife and I at my last formal...yes...pre-tied bowtie and el-cheapo cummerbund....ick....this is why I want to upgrade!!!

Sorry about the flash white out...I'm sure there's a way to adjust the pic, but I just didn't take the time. It highlights the grey in my temples as well!!!
"If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." -- Thomas Paine
Scottish-American Military Society Post 1921
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