Style and fashions change. We can't expect to use our latest tastes and still be consistent with tradition. On the other hand some new fashions are obviously stupid. Each of us has to decide whether it's ridiculous or if it will offend someone else.

You have to balance whether you care about offending or whether it's likely to do so. There's a balance between doing what you want to do, and if there really is a possibility of offense, whether it matters.

I can't imagine the ruche tie offending anyone on the planet, but it may indeed not be to some folks' taste. I notice on this site a lot of major friction between those who insist on their personal right to do what they want, and those who place a premium on getting along with others without upset. I deeply respect those rights of the individual, but I place a slightly higher premium on respect for others.

While it may not be to taste for others, in the case of the tie it is highly unlikely to actually truly offend, so if you like it, go for it!