Have you ever been checked for your dress under the kilt?

[Nick]

Once, at a party one of my wife's coworkers had. I had been out to dinners with her coworkers, etc, before, so I wasn't a stranger. Said coworker was rather inebriated, and tried to check out under the kilt.

[walkerk]

[Clan McKinnon]

Dude, I was cutting you some slack, and besides all the clever things I was going to say in this thread had already been said, but now I no longer can control myself. Really, how to respond to the question?

Number 4

Best regards,

Jake

Duuuude,
I get #4, I really do, but in searching I have to read about what boots or socks to wear "under" the kilt, I have to fumble through thread after thread reading alll sorts of stuff that does not answer the questions I am asking just to find one nugget of real answer.

I am not saying anyone's previous posts are anything but brilliant, but they do not answer the questions I have posed very often. I am sure there are many who have the same questions I have and would love to get the answers some more sage members like yourself have, without the hours of searching to find them.

If it bothers you for me to ask the questions, or bothers you for others to answer them then I am sorry. I have searched though, and for those who do not mind the repitition please feel free to answer the questions with your old answers, or new answers you have come up with since the last time the question was asked.

Thank you in advance for your help.

[walkerk]

Thank you in advance for your help.

Here ya go: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&c...i=&safe=images

[Monkey@Arms]

"The Question" anyone?

Best regards,

Jake

[Clan McKinnon]

Monkey,
Thank you for the lesson. I was being way too detailed in my serch request, lesson learned. Thank you for the help.

[sathor]

Aside from the gods, no kilt checks here.

And I swear the gods only do it when I am regimental.

They have some sense of humor.

[Rex_Tremende]

Also, try searching for the term "harassment" in all posts using the advanced search. Specify results should be returned as threads.

Regards,
Rex.

[Rex_Tremende]

It sounds like the mods should think about shutting it down right now if all that will take place, but maybe we will get to see it play out still the same.

I did not know what to do and had not ever thought of it happeing so I did not know how to respond. My son on the other hand called them perverted in a loud voice and being only 9 he can be loud. The girls blushed as all attention was turned to them and sulked away.

If I could go back and do it over I might not change a thing.

Well, out of the mouths of babes...

Just for the record, my remarks were not an admonishment of your having asked that particular question. What's a new guy to do, anyway? (#4, I know.) They were honestly directed to no one in particular, and were just my way of saying some care should be taken in how the rabble responds, because we've been down this path before; sometimes the resulting dialog peters out on its own, but other times it ends up in a most unfortunate place.

Anyway, the scenario you described is priceless: the nine-year-old turns the tables. And as you can see, you didn't need to think about or practice anything for it to turn out that way.

As you may have seen already, some people look forward to the experience (they say), and others are weary of it (they say). After so many rounds of this, it often comes to the point where one camp wonders why is the other camp so uptight, and the other camp accuses the first of making kilting a dangerous hobby for everyone. (See steps #5-9.)

But when it comes down to it, it's you who's going to have to assess the situation and decide whether it's welcome or a violation. Everyone's motivations are different, and I wouldn't advise trying anyone else's on for size. Each situation is different. Be genuine, and I think you will find that you will think of exactly the right way to handle each one when it happens.

If not, be sure and have your kid follow you around as your wingman. Sounds like he's pretty good at it.

Regards,
Rex.

[Clan McKinnon]

Just for the record, my remarks were not an admonishment of your having asked that particular question. What's a new guy to do, anyway? (#4, I know.)

My mistake, never dreamed before asking that it was as huge an issue as it seems to be. Thank you for your help with it.