Do I look gay to you!?

[AckZel]

Ok. Today one gay guy tried to hit me. He said I look good in kilt and so on. I tried to explain I am not interested but he didn't seem to believe me. Should I take it as compliment or what? Damn it...

[Southern Breeze]

Take it as a compliment, smile and enjoy life while kilted.

[Blu (Ontario)]

It certainly doesn't sound as though it was intended to be derogatory. A compliment perhaps... in a manner of speaking.

[AckZel]

I didn't seen to get him understand so I just said "Ok I'm going now and walked away."

[GMan]

Definetly a compliment, walking away just told him you have boundaries. FWIW I get compliments from both male and female, and love them both, but have my favorites, and those are few very few.

[Big Dave]

Look at it like you look so good in a kilt, even the men want you.;) I've been hit on by both sexes. I take it as a complement.

[Riverkilt]

Aye, testiment to the power of the kilt.

When Arnold Swartzenegger was in his top form he took it as a compliment when men hit on him.

And, there's Woody Allen's thought that its double the chance of getting a date.

In your case sounds like the guy was too focused on his own needs to have any empathy for yours. Not a good way to start a relationship even if you had any interest.

And, it never hurts to have a few stock weirdo lines ready for situations where you need to breakaway clean...."The Russian Ambassador is here, I have to go now." "I'll be back in a few minutes, the pizza you ordered is ready." "I'm sorry, I'm late and have to rewind my DVD's before the next class." Leaves them politely, but puzzled...;-)

Ron

[Riverkilt]

Ackwell,

A REAL compliment would have been if a STRAIGHT guy hit on you

Now THAT would be KILT POWER!

Ron

[GMan]

Thank you Dee for what you said.

One response that I always get, a little bit of a take off of Ackwell's original post, "You look to Straight to be Gay".

I am just me.

[AckZel]

Well, my main goal was to provoke some debate. I think it's a success so far