Do I look gay to you!?

**AckZel** · 4th December 05, 02:04 PM

Ok. Today one gay guy tried to hit me. He said I look good in kilt and so on. I tried to explain I am not interested but he didn't seem to believe me. Should I take it as compliment or what? Damn it...

**Southern Breeze** · 4th December 05, 02:10 PM

Take it as a compliment, smile and enjoy life while kilted.

**Blu (Ontario)** · 4th December 05, 02:20 PM

It certainly doesn't sound as though it was intended to be derogatory. A compliment perhaps... in a manner of speaking.

**AckZel** · 4th December 05, 02:21 PM

I didn't seen to get him understand so I just said "Ok I'm going now and walked away."

**GMan** · 4th December 05, 02:53 PM

Definetly a compliment, walking away just told him you have boundaries. FWIW I get compliments from both male and female, and love them both, but have my favorites, and those are few very few.

**Big Dave** · 4th December 05, 03:50 PM

Look at it like you look so good in a kilt, even the men want you.;) I've been hit on by both sexes. I take it as a complement.

**Riverkilt** · 4th December 05, 04:35 PM

Aye, testiment to the power of the kilt.

When Arnold Swartzenegger was in his top form he took it as a compliment when men hit on him.

And, there's Woody Allen's thought that its double the chance of getting a date.

In your case sounds like the guy was too focused on his own needs to have any empathy for yours. Not a good way to start a relationship even if you had any interest.

And, it never hurts to have a few stock weirdo lines ready for situations where you need to breakaway clean...."The Russian Ambassador is here, I have to go now." "I'll be back in a few minutes, the pizza you ordered is ready." "I'm sorry, I'm late and have to rewind my DVD's before the next class." Leaves them politely, but puzzled...;-)

Ron

**KiltedCodeWarrior** · 4th December 05, 06:27 PM

Originally Posted by Riverkilt

Aye, testiment to the power of the kilt.

When Arnold Swartzenegger was in his top form he took it as a compliment when men hit on him.

And, there's Woody Allen's thought that its double the chance of getting a date.

In your case sounds like the guy was too focused on his own needs to have any empathy for yours. Not a good way to start a relationship even if you had any interest.

And, it never hurts to have a few stock weirdo lines ready for situations where you need to breakaway clean...."The Russian Ambassador is here, I have to go now." "I'll be back in a few minutes, the pizza you ordered is ready." "I'm sorry, I'm late and have to rewind my DVD's before the next class." Leaves them politely, but puzzled...;-)

Ron

Ron, some great replies! How about, Scotty just called and he needs more power!

**switchblade5984** · 4th December 05, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by KiltedCodeWarrior

Ron, some great replies! How about, Scotty just called and he needs more power!

hmmm not quite my style but it could work

**KiltedCodeWarrior** · 4th December 05, 06:41 PM

And Ackwell, I meant to point this out in my previous post, but in response to the question that started your post, how would any of us know? The only picture of you we have seen (I think) is in your avatar. You could be Gilligan's twin brother or Billy Idol as near as I can tell. But even if it was a great picture, I did not know that being gay was something that someone could pick up on just by looking at you. Maybe I am wrong.