I Just picked up my first HW kilt from Stillwater today, and I got the Saffron Shadow tartan. I keep hearing folks on here say how soft theres are, but I can't agree! My kilt feels like HEMP! Am I special and that's how this is, or is there anything I can do to remedy this situation? This has to be the most stiff, coarse fabric of all the SWK I have owned.