Nighthawk,
You absolutely do have friends here. Please count me among them I was unaware of your personal connection to the event. MY thoughts are with you, the other victims, including survivors and their families. No one except the defendant is unsympathetic.

That being said, the trial and the violent acts of that man are inextricable from one another. This could easily devolve into a violation of Rule 11, but so far has not. Let's all keep it that way and let bygones be bygones.