I'm sure this has been done before but please share any advice. Also it would help too if anyone could point me to any previous threads like this.

I have never actually worn a kilt other than to try a couple on, I have a big waist so it's hard to just come across a kilt that fits, but still I think an 8 yard (probably 9 in my case) kilt will be first. I am considering a jacket and vest too since I have nothing but that's for another time.

I am planning on a tartan kilt but my biggest questions are about the weight and sewing.

I am trying to figure out some of the differences between a 13oz and 16oz wool. I have a big belly to consider and read the heavier weight was maybe better for that. However, because of my extra weight the warmth is a concern - I don't want to be discouraged from wearing it by getting too hot.

What I'm more interested in -
Is there is a visual difference between the two weights? can you easily see a difference? does one look better than the other?
Can one commonly see the difference between 100% hand sewn, machine, or a machine & hand sown kilt?

I'm suppose most will say a 16oz 100% hand sewn is best but I am trying to figure out the differences. I am saving up so the price will not be a deal breaker but how quickly I can get it would be a consideration.

Again, any advice would be welcome