Quote Originally Posted by Shay
What nationality is her family? I'm just curious, maybe you can find something she could identify with and not be so nervous.
Or, if the state you live in has a state tartan, show her that and explain that the concept of US state (and Candian provincial) tartans is to provide a tartan that every person in that state can wear, and not just those of Scottish heritage.

Cheers,

Todd