My wife and I make a game out of it. She was feeling guilty about having a piece of jewelry made. So, I ordered a Matt Newsome box pleated kilt, a Ferguson Britt sporran and a vintage Argyl jacket, which all together cost less than her jewelry, but I didn't want to push it. Last month she talked me into buying an arctic fox sporran, so I strongly encouraged her to order the new bodhran that she was considering; now she'll be jonesing for the next few months.