Neither of my two kids were exactly planned, but nether was a surprise. Some activities have expected outcomes!

While it is a lot of effort and some worrying, I wouldn't trade mine for the world. Getting through the first six months is the hardest. After that, their personality really starts to come through and it gets more fun by the day. Still labor intensive, trying to raise a responsible human being, but also fun.

Hang on and enjoy the ride! Soon you'll be looking back wondering where the time went as the little baby graduates high school.