just my 2 cents worth ....

in all honesty, i would honor Grandma's request. i appreciate your desire to go kilt, but it's only a one time thing.

i'll live an die in a denim shirt. i haven't worn anything but a denim shirt for the last 6 years. but if Grandma expressed her desire for me to wear an Oxford for her birthday, i surely would. no matter how much it pains me.

i think this is a moment for consideration to Grandma.

Best of luck, whichever choice you make.

ambrose ..

ps... but when it's family reunion time and the horse shoes start flyin', you'll dazzle the family with a ringer of a kilt!