We start off Christmas eve with church then Irish coffee at my inlaws . Christmas morning is grapefruit washed down with baileys and coffee ( more baileys than coffee ) then off to the inlaws for lunch . Lunch is normally ham , scalloped potatoes , coleslaw , deviled eggs and carrot cake for desert . Best carrot cake i have ever had i must say . Then its off to my folks for the traditional turkey, mashed potato and stuffing dinner . By this point we are normally well stuffed and ready to nap .