blu, he sure wouldn't want tears. In the morning, before they close the coffin, I'm putting in a bottle of his favorite refreshment, Ruby Port. The minister isn't happy about that, but the family all like the idea. I know he'd appreciate the gesture. Some of the family is getting in tonight and those are the ones that have no idea I'll be wearing a kilt and nobody is going to tell em. One Uncle is retired military so it should be interesting. I'm pretty sure they'll like it even if it will surprise em. It went well this afternoon, nothing but compliments and comments on how he would have loved it.