Which Sporran?

[Tarheel]

Here would be my choices:
If I am participating in the wedding (usher, best man) I would wear the fur sporran and black shoes.

If I am a guest of the groom (but not in the ceremony) the brown sporran and brown shoes.

If I am a guest of the bride (not in the ceremony) the black sporran and black shoes.

My list is to honor the bride and her family as much as bring attention to the couple without distracting from "their day of joining".