Quote Originally Posted by Alan H
...However, my work track record with Mary is not good. What I do for her is never good enough.
Do you really think it's the kilt...? Do you really think it's...you?

Is it possible this person has a problem with you? Ask yourself, if it was not the kilt it would have been the shirt or the hat or your email signature?

Only you know what your situation is, and I can't give you any advice worth more that what you're paying for it...

...but, as I think KiltedBishop alluded to, you are in the right. Always easier to be on Offense than on Defense.