Alan,

Any reason for those of us who are newly kilted not to respond? I saw you qualified your male responses as being kilted for more than 6 months, but I would expect anybody who had been kilted that long is well past issues with their SO. I certainly expect to be! Either with full support, or an agreement on when it is appropriate to wear it that we can both agree to.

IMO, by the time you have been wearing a kilt for 6 months or more, your SO will have come to accept it, or you may have moved on to another SO. It is the early wearing of the kilt that seems to me to be the problem

RJI