Do I look gay to you!?

[GMan]

Definetly a compliment, walking away just told him you have boundaries. FWIW I get compliments from both male and female, and love them both, but have my favorites, and those are few very few.

[Big Dave]

Look at it like you look so good in a kilt, even the men want you.;) I've been hit on by both sexes. I take it as a complement.

[Riverkilt]

Aye, testiment to the power of the kilt.

When Arnold Swartzenegger was in his top form he took it as a compliment when men hit on him.

And, there's Woody Allen's thought that its double the chance of getting a date.

In your case sounds like the guy was too focused on his own needs to have any empathy for yours. Not a good way to start a relationship even if you had any interest.

And, it never hurts to have a few stock weirdo lines ready for situations where you need to breakaway clean...."The Russian Ambassador is here, I have to go now." "I'll be back in a few minutes, the pizza you ordered is ready." "I'm sorry, I'm late and have to rewind my DVD's before the next class." Leaves them politely, but puzzled...;-)

Ron

[KiltedCodeWarrior]

Aye, testiment to the power of the kilt.

When Arnold Swartzenegger was in his top form he took it as a compliment when men hit on him.

And, there's Woody Allen's thought that its double the chance of getting a date.

In your case sounds like the guy was too focused on his own needs to have any empathy for yours. Not a good way to start a relationship even if you had any interest.

And, it never hurts to have a few stock weirdo lines ready for situations where you need to breakaway clean...."The Russian Ambassador is here, I have to go now." "I'll be back in a few minutes, the pizza you ordered is ready." "I'm sorry, I'm late and have to rewind my DVD's before the next class." Leaves them politely, but puzzled...;-)

Ron

Ron, some great replies! How about, Scotty just called and he needs more power!

[switchblade5984]

Ron, some great replies! How about, Scotty just called and he needs more power!

hmmm not quite my style but it could work

[KiltedCodeWarrior]

And Ackwell, I meant to point this out in my previous post, but in response to the question that started your post, how would any of us know? The only picture of you we have seen (I think) is in your avatar. You could be Gilligan's twin brother or Billy Idol as near as I can tell. But even if it was a great picture, I did not know that being gay was something that someone could pick up on just by looking at you. Maybe I am wrong.

[Raphael]

And Ackwell, I meant to point this out in my previous post, but in response to the question that started your post, how would any of us know? The only picture of you we have seen (I think) is in your avatar. You could be Gilligan's twin brother or Billy Idol as near as I can tell. But even if it was a great picture, I did not know that being gay was something that someone could pick up on just by looking at you. Maybe I am wrong.

Dude, you have seen his picture and you also made a comment about how he looks. here is a reminder: http://www.xmarksthescot.com/forum/s...0&page=1&pp=10

[Nick]

I've been hit on by gay guys before, but never whilst kilted. Actually, a gay guy told me I had a nice backside...on stage...during a show. It was all I could do not to break character.

I think it's kinda funny, but I'm not interested.

[mbhandy]

I like the rewind the DVD or better yet My MP3 needs rewinding ( It is Cal.)

[chasem]

Some guys have the sterotypical "I'm gay" look. And some have features that say "gay." (This is, of course, the common [mis]conception.)

As far as how to respond, take it as a compliment. One you might have preferred to do without, but a compliment nonetheless ;)