Quote Originally Posted by Alan H
.... Now that it's almost a year later, I don't worry about it. I'm back to being plain old me, maybe standing a bit taller, but I don't radiate "challenge" every singe second that I'm outside. But if I hadn't done that, I might not have gotten to where I am now, which is a place where a kilt is just another piece of clothing, although a nice one and a fun one and one that people notice...
I think this is an important point.

It definately takes a bit of time and experience to settle into it and get completely comfortable.